Saturday, 16 June 2018

I can't commit to a man who has not proven himself to be a good provider- SARAH OJATTAH

ABOUT SARAH:
Ojattah Sarah, 21, is a Journalist and Make-up Artist, born March 5, 1997.
As a young C.E.O of "Fin's makeover", she is passionate about music and research.
I.G handle(s): @akabasara
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Here is what she says about THE RIGHT AGE FOR GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP:


If You are ready for a relationship, then you should be ready to prepare yourself to get married within a reasonable amount of time. If you cannot seriously think about marriage, you should probably not be involved in an exclusive relationship with the opposite sex.

If we decided to give a certain age as the answer to this, then it is not true.
Talking about "Marriage",
Marriage is for people who are "emotionally mature" and from a scientific/biological standpoint, we know that the brain continues to mature into the mid-twenties. This does not mean that we are automatically matured by age 20-27, nor does it mean all teenagers are immature.

Relationship or marriage is not for a girl or a boy, it is for men and women; although right now in our generation, we ignore the truth.

Apparently there's no age gap in being in an Ideal relationship.
Really, we all know age is just a number and a state of mind, I have known some 18 year olds who are more mature than some of my 30-year-old pals.

 Surely what matters to a good, and lasting relationship is how well you get on, understand and respect each other. Regardless, the society seems set on putting a number on the 'ideal age gap', and this claims to have found exactly what difference in age will make for a lasting, and successful relationship.

A Male and a female who thinks they can handle Financial and emotional stuff can carry on in being in a relationship.

 "A man shouldn't  bother pursuing a serious relationship if he is not financially ready to take care of a girl or a family because I am sure a mature and sensible woman wouldn't  want to commit to a man who has not proven himself to be a good provider. Well for me, I can't".

I don’t mean that a guy has to be rich, just financially stable. Both men and women should look for someone who is disciplined financially.
 There's no age gap in getting to a  relationship.

Maturity and  Stability are what to consider when getting into a relationship.

1 comment:

  1. Good idea but she also needs to be financially stable.

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